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Originally Posted by fyrnymph
I don't understand the "honorary sister" thing. Aren't you either a sister, or not? Regardless, there's not much you can do about that without looking petty.
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I believe she may be referring to their version of AI since the OP said the other person was in grad school and she was "nominated" (like the NPC AI process)
Regardless, they are both awful people for doing that to you
I'm so sorry you are having to deal with such a difficult circumstance.
I think the best thing to do is move on. Trust me, I know that is so much easier said than done because she is always there, but that overwhelming feeling of ickyness will not go away immediately.
I don't know if I would ever be able to fully forgive that ... or if I would even want to.. because when you forgive someone, you pretty much have to forget it ever existed for things to be the way they were before... and for me personally that would be very hard.
I think in the long run, you just have to shake it off .... they are both bad people and they probably deserve each other for that.... and like someone else already said, better you found out now, rather than way later down the road and you shouldn't have to waste any more time on them.