[33girl]

Were they together before you broke up - i.e. do you think their relationship or its beginning was part of why you and he broke up?

If so, I don't think you ever could forgive her and you just need to go on and accept that she isn't part of your life anymore.

If not, give it time.

I had a "friend breakup" recently (which is chronicled, albeit discreetly, on GC) and people looking in on it would say "oh, it was over a guy" but the truth of the matter is - the guy was the LEAST of the problems - it just brought to my eyes that she was no longer the same person I'd been friends with and that she had never known the real me AT ALL, and when she DID get out of her bubble and find out who I really was, she didn't like me. That was worse betrayal than anything that could ever happen with any man.