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Originally Posted by chopper640

I have been in a relationship with the same girl for 2 1/2 years and she keeps bringing up the topic of marriage, she uses the term "when we get married" even though i havent proposed and i am in no way ready to get married for at least another 4 years or so. and when i correct her with the more appropriate "if we get married" she gets angry. what should i do???

I might get flamed for this, but whatever. After 2.5 years, you should have some idea of whether you want to marry this girl or not.

If you know now that you will not EVER marry her, you need to have that conversation with her and let her know. This is clearly something she wants, and if you know that it will NEVER happen, you need to let her know so she can decide whether she wants to stay with you or not. If she thinks you guys are eventually going to get married, and you know that you definitely don't want that, you are wasting her time.

On the other hand, if you DO want to marry her EVENTUALLY (just not right now), that's also something you need to discuss. This is just so that you 2 can be on the same page because it doesn't sound like you are right now.