[ealymc]

There is a defected brother from my chapter, age 28ish, pledged and was initiated with a wife and two daughters under age 5. IMHO, it doesn't speak much to your manhood to have a family to care for yet to be out and about galavanting with a bunch of 21 year olds... but no one wanted to hear me then... he has since dropped letters and pledged an NPHC fraternity (previously alluded to), where he felt he fit in more... Priorities, priorities...