This is something that my roommate just dealt with, because she just depinned from her sorority. I think that you really need to figure out what your priorities are. In some respects my roommate felt that was holding her chapter back, because she was so disinterested with the whole sorority thing. Her decision to drop out was better for her, because now she is free to spend her time doing things that she wants to do. Find someone that you can talk to about it. It may even be someone outside of your chapter. One thing that I think that you need to prepare yourself for is how people will react if you depledge. I personally got a lot of flak from people about my roommate, because they blamed me for her disinterest. This varies with different chapters. You should not let this affect your decision too much though.
The most important thing is that you are happy, and if your sorority does not do that for you then maybe it's not right. I hope this helps.
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