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Thanks!
And you're right. In this case, because we haven't seen each other in two years, it's really hard to say what he really wanted. But I had to be honest with myself and LISTEN to his words and his actions.
Now I have this OTHER love.... I call him "the great love of my life so far" LOL.... he is a prime example of what you describe. We went on and off for three years -- THREE YEARS -- before I realized he was just throwing me bones because he liked how I treated him.
He and I are very good friends now and when we tell each other "I love you" we mean it. But happy endings like that are rare and I realize that me and the ex from the original post are not going to have (nor should we have) that kind of relationship.
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