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I agree with the others on this--miles to go yet. Plus, you wouldn't want everyone in your house to be the same, anyway. We had a few drama queens in my chapter and it was not a large chapter so we alllllll had to get along to some degree. One of my pledge sisters drove us all up the wall because she was so histrionic about everything. But deep down, she was a good person and we all figured out how to work around the personality. Dramatic people can add energy, passion, and enthusiasm to a chapter, all of which are pluses for recruitment and chapter spirit.
Assuming both of you do get into this particular house, you'll just find your way. Keep an open mind. Perhaps she has strengths and interests you'll have in common with her. I certainly was not friends with just the same 3 sisters for 4 years--I was constantly discovering new things about the other girls in the house, and I learned a lot about how wonderful they all were in their own way.
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