[AlethiaSi]

I agree with what everyone else said. I think one of the most important lessons that you learn being greek is that you won't always get along with everyone, but sometimes you have to in order for the organization to operate. This happens as an adult in the "real world" I don't necessarily like everyone I work with, but I have work with them in order for my office to operate.
Everything will be ok, things might turn out differently than you expect.

ETA: like honeychile said, there were girls that I didn't really care for, that other girls voted on but I didn't. One of them ended up being my direct sister in my family line. I learned to love her, and I would do anything for her.