I am sorry to hear about what hapened to you. I agree with what has been said above, with one more thing to add. . .
Get to know the girls on your campus in the greek system, because rush is not always the only time to join. There is "open rush" or continuous open bidding, and the best way to get a bid in a situation like that is to get out there and get known.
If nothing else, getting known lets you make lots of friends, greek or not!
Trojan Girl
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