There is something to be said about academic requirements and membership. I remeber the fall after I graduated, the queen at homecoming and her court (sophomore and junior attendants) were all sorors, each one with a gpa that was 3.4 or better, and they didn't have easy majors (two accounting and one pharmacy), that was one of the better memories of college life. I would remind people that yes, they are all sorors, but what about their GPA's!
I have two daughters and it breaks my heart, actually brings tears to my eyes, that they won't be calling me Big Sister
that is assuming they seek and are accepted into membership