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I would pull the pledgemaster to the side and ask why you were left out of it and why you all didn't sit down and try to work something out.

My big didn't want me, she wanted to wait for a girl who was going to pledge the next semester. I didn't want my big. Guess what? We got each other. We didn't get along and barely talked unless we had to...she just had no interest in me, knowing this girl, I'll call her A, was going to pledge in the fall and she really wanted A as her little. Fall came, A pledged, and she was a MUCH better big to A. It hurt me to see that but I was close with other sisters, including other sisters in my family tree, so I shrugged it off. A got initiated and not even two weeks later she decided to drop her letters because she got engaged and didn't see the need for a sorority any more *We really thought she was serious when she joined, NONE of us knew she was like that* My big felt horrible...and about 2 months later she spent the night by my house so we could leave together early the morning for leadership retreat for my school and ever since then we are a lot closer. Something that neither one of us were happy with at first wound up being great in the end. It happens sometimes.