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I do appreciate your honest opinions and it gives me things to think about.

By social, I mean they don't just do service things together and go home - they hang out, etc. many even date. I didn't mean that they have parties with other greeks - pretty sure that they don't.

If I really and truly felt that my NIC group sucked, I think that I would try to join APO as quickly as I could. A great organization, a brotherhood, but different from NIC fraternities. If I hated my NIC, that might just be what I needed.

I know plenty of people, that while they enjoy service, a main reason for joining APO was to make friends or/and they have a lot of friends already in APO (as I do) that they want to become closer to. Is this so wrong?

Once again, I really apprecaite your honest answers 33girl.