all these comments are such good advice. the other two girls involved, missy (the bride to be) and saundra (the maid of honor) do know about the situation - but we really dont talk about it. the overnight trip sounds so much fun, but unless some other girls i know are coming too, i dont think i can go. i have missed several birthday and christmas parties bc i knew jana and travis would be there. ah~ i hate being in this situation!
oh yeah - i still stand by my decision to tell jana about her then bf now husband. he is one of those guys who picks up younger women online or wherever and denies that he is married. its sick. i swear if you had his aol name you could just say hi, and he would hit on you so hard and fast you would be out of breath!
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