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one of the events is an overnight trip to the mountains to stay in a cabin - just the girls.
This is a potentially explosive stuation. If there is any drinking or "attitude adjustment" going on, you will be exposing yourself to your burried feelings AND hers! That's 2 people who under "relaxed" circumstances may lose control of emotions. One slip of the tongue or one wrong interpretation and BOOOOM!
This is probably the one event everyone else is looking forward to, but then do they know the history? If they know, they may act like peacekeepers OR, it could turn into an all out brawl with blame getting thrown around.
I agree with browneyedgirl's post (BTW-GREAT advice!)
When I read your NEXT post, I hve to say you have 2 options-
You can face Jana and tell her that you want to be civil but understand there's no guarantee when girls are sitting around indulging...
You can bow out of this ONE gathering and spend some time with other friends you have neglected during this busy time.
It might be the wrong choice for others, but since I know how I am, I'd send my regrets...
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