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Originally Posted by luckystar4909
Well, I mean I am definitely very naive to the whole thing but that is part of the reason why after I e-mailed the president and told her what I was thinking of doing and after I received her response but no actual sit-down formal meeting why I thought that I was just in limbo; neither active or depledged. I don't know. Thank you ladies anyway and I will definitely get on that.
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Of course. As a pledge, no one would expect you to be fully aware of the formal process of de-pledging (or the process an initiated member would go through to de-activate).
I'm just surprised that the president didn't follow up with you way back when. I know that in several (if not all) NPC groups, the appropriate officer is required to follow up with a member who notifies of intent to go inactive. And I'm fairly certain that many (if not all) NPC groups require that the appropriate officer contact someone who de-pledged or deactivated to get back any sorority property (pledge pins, badges, etc.)
But that's certainly not your fault - you couldn't have known as a pledge that the President wasn't following through on the proper procedure with you.
