In Phi Mu you can do this. You can become an alumnae, but if you go to a school that does have it reinstate yourself. There is a lot of paper work involved (to prove you're in good standing). My chapter doesn't get a lot of transfers. It's so sad, they'll come but they won't reaffiliate even though nationals states on the paper work that you should. This summer when I was a Pi Chi, a girl came up to me and said she wanted to reaffiliate with Phi Mu, I was SOOO excited, but I never got her name and I don't know what became of her...I gave her the president of our chapter's email but I couldn't tell her I was one too since it was so close to recruitment. So SAD
, I would have made sure to stay in contact had I been allowed.