I have an update.
All I can say is that prayer WORKS because one of my friends has taken some action!
As you recall, I mentioned that friend #2's boyfriend was exhibiting all signs of a cheater. Well, I believe that God put her in a place to see and hear what she needed to see and hear yesterday! In the morning, she decided to randomly show up at the dude's house because he hadn't been returning her phone calls. When she knocked on the door, he called out ANOTHER WOMAN'S name!
Well, you can imagine what happened next. That was the proof my friend needed. The dude starts back-peddling but it was to no avail. My friend got him to admit that he is seeing MULTIPLE other women. He was expecting one of those women in the morning, and was totally shocked to see my friend instead. My friend was able to get a bicycle she had left there, but he was shoo-ing her out when she tried to get the rest of her belongings.
I found out about all this when I met up with her last night for a bite to eat. She actually wanted to roll up to his house and retrieve the rest of her stuff. I talked her out of that because there is no point. So, thankfully, she is through with this guy, but still pretty upset.
But regarding friend #1, who is married:
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Does your friend that's married have any kids? I'm asking because a lot of couples stay married miserable because of the kids.
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Thankfully, no. However, she is thinking that they should have one next year in an attempt to "make the relationship better." Of course, we've all told her that this is the WORST thing to do EVER. I actually called her last night to invite her to go to dinner with me and our other friend, but she said, "Well, I really don't like to go out anymore. I'm not into that any longer. I just prefer to stay home now."
Okay, we are talking about someone who was one of the world's biggest partiers just a couple years ago. She is completely brainwashed. She even speaks in a slow, small voice now.
I am going to try to locate a counselor in her area to see if maybe she'd want to go. She's got to do something.