Holy heck.
This is way out of my lane, and I know that the NPC new member period is way different from NPHC MIP, but...
I can't EVER imagine speaking to any of my sisters like that... or anyONE that I was asking for help, Kappa sister or fellow Greek or not.
To the OP, you should think about whether you would speak to these posters this way if they were on the phone or standing right next to you. Even though you can't see them, they're still your sisters, sisterfriends, or fellow NPHC members, and you owe them the same respect here as you would in person.
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As long as you're making them, could I please have a mojito, too?