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Marcellac85 - welcome to AKA Ave. on GreekChat. I had to think about your post for a little while because my first instinct was not to even respond at all. Your situation is nothing "new" and many of us have read posts about situations like yours.
The thing is this...unless one of our Sorors from the particular chapter you are referring to is here on GC, none of my Sorors here can really address "why" you were treated in the manner you claim. You really need to address that with those Sorors at your school.
I will say this though....perhaps you're taking it all a little too "personally" and it shows in your demeanor and attitude to the Sorors on your campus. Perhaps you need to seriously practice discretion and not tell any other interested ladies on your campus about how you feel. I guarantee you that any discussion like that will get straight back to my Sorors on your campus.
There is no "Users' Guide" or manual to direct you on communication. This applies to any situation in life - work, relationships, friendships - not just AKA. When you feel like this, get up, dust yourself off, and keep striving.
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