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Lone Dog,
I couldn't agree more with your statement, especially your closing remarks. Let me step out on limb with you, amidst fear of being cyber-stoned, to state that I think things are a whole lot easier now. When one considers what people two generations went thru, it is easy to see that we do have it quite easy.
As far as I am concerned, joining an elite organization demands special commitment. If and when I do decide to attempt pledging (oops, I mean undergo MIP), I say bring it on. Contrary to popular opinion, would-be newer members all don't want to "pay" our way in. I have met quite a few greeks, and for those made right, I am yet to find one to refer to their pledge process negatively. So, there just might be some good in a controlled, semi-above ground pledge process, where the men charged with making new men know the difference between pledging and murder. Still, I think prospects should not be held to blame for how they enter. It is only as easy as the organization lets it to be. As for me, if I wanted it easy, I'd join a dinner club.