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Originally Posted by UWO_2007
She was in my formal recruitment group, 3 out of 5 of us went to GPB... last night she stayed stuck to us for most of the night. (I don't think she realized that we have no say in the voting process) If she comes back to night, how should I handle her? I don't want to be rude to her, but there are other girls we have to meet and talk to, and because of how she was during formal, no one wants to talk to her...  |
You're right, she probably doesn't realize that NMs don't have a vote. But, it's easy to see why she might have stayed close to you during the party - you're who she feels most comfortable with. If she comes back tonight, and she sticks close to your group again, I'd recommend that you suggest she gets to know the members. You don't have to expand on that, you don't need to say why, or that you don't have a vote... just say, "You should really get to know the actives - you already know us!" That puts the difficulty in the hands of the experienced rushers.