The search button is your friend. If GreekChat doesn't work, there's always Google.

http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/ar...hp/t-1246.html
http://www.greekchat.com/gcforums/ar...hp/t-2604.html

FWIW, in my experience here on GreekChat, the use of that word is frowned upon and I've seen many people get sensitive about it here.

Judging from your post, I'm going to assume that you're interested in an NPHC fraternity. That said, if I were you, I'd refrain from asking any questions on intake and membership online and follow the guidelines set forth by the fraternity you're interested in.