[ZetaXiDelta]

[That's the problem almost all of my money goes to tuition, sorority dues, food/clothing for my kids, and personal things for myself. After that, I do not have enough money left over babysitters when I go to sorority functions. I only use babysitters when I go to work, I can afford anything else.]

First of all, due to the fact that you have two children I'm sure you get a decent amount of financial aid. Secondly, if you do not have the means to hire someone to watch your children then maybe you should not commit to something as time consuming as a sorority. Use your common sense...children do not belong at chapter meetings, parties, or rituals; they're CHILDREN not mini-adults!