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how old are your kids? and it doesn't take a dumb child to get burned, just a bored one. no matter how well behaved they are, i'm sorry--it's NOT appropriate for them to be present at rituals. you have to realize that you are not the only one affected. it's not fair to the girls you are initiating with to have a different experience than all the other pledge classes just because one girl needed to bring her kids. maybe you can work something out with a friend on campus that would be available in a pinch?
...wait...you WORK too? how the...whatever. i guess if you work hard enough you CAN have it all. but let me tell you something. there's this woman who is an interest for my sorority right now. she's fantastic; never misses anything--one of our favorite girls to go on. yet she has 2 young children. thing is...she WAITED until she was at a point in her life that her children wouldn't be a factor in her sorority experience. i don't understand why you wouldn't want to do the same. your sorority is such a personal thing...i don't get why you feel your children should be part of it.
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