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Well, in some cases, smaller schools have deferred rush too, so (if the campus doesn't have a lot of stupid silence rules that are contrary to the whole point of deferred) she's gotten to know some of the chapter members in a non-rush setting. I know that there were some chapters at my school (total was 50) that I would have not felt comfortable being a part of and would have refused a bid from. Not to say I didn't like some of the girls, that doesn't mean I want to be their sister. I don't think I'd be out of line if I said that probably a third (if not more) of the girls at our school suicided - just because they knew the sororities and the women beforehand.
I agree that you do have till initiation and should give it a chance, I just wonder how much of a "real taste" NMs get sometimes.
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