Politely saying no, and informal rush bids
I am a 23 year old freshman going thru a semi-informal (bordering on COB) rush this spring. There are only 3 houses on campus and only 10 girls rushing, so everyone is almost guarenteed a bid from all three houses. My problem is the houses are all having activities at the same time, and since I have decided to go with ABC, how do I politely decline EFG and XYZ? Don't get me wrong, the attention is flattering, but it seems the other two houses can't take a polite no for an answer.
Also..
has anyone else gone thru a small rush like this with no structure and no real bid day? How was bidding handled?
thanks
TrojanGirl
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