never a bridesmaid but always just a wedding guest. Alas, I have never had the privilege though my best friend from vet school asked me to be hers but it was a traditional chinese wedding and the dress was over 200$ and I was never going to wear it again so I had to turn her down b/c I was poorer than dirt then. Anyways, got another weeding to go to in 3 weeks. My friends always try and pick out one of their guests to force upon poor single me-ugggg.
BTW, on a dim note has anyone been seeing a large number of divorces since Sept. 11th? I know of 5 people rt. now getting a divorce-coincidence? People I though had a rock solid marriage-very depressing. I think I will stay happily single for now (like I have a choice
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