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Originally Posted by sage_la
I have an unusual situation where I was pledging an NPC several years ago, but I ended up depledging a few days before initiation. I accept responsiblity for my poor decision making, I should have done my homework, but I took everything at face value and pledged with the wrong people for me. I was jaded at 18, did not understand the processes involved, and I was told that I would not be a sister based on my verbal "goodbye" to the group. However, a few months later I found out that I was initiated even though I'd left beforehand (which, I don't know the full process involved, but any papers signed were forged), and it took me over a year to get my letters dropped with the org. They implied to me then that I would be erased from all records and it would be like I was never put down as an initiated member and I would be free and clear, which made me believe that I would be able to keep the greek option open for the future - but I found out later that that was very untrue.
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Wow, this sounds like a complicated situation!
I don't understand how this group "initiated" you without you even being there! Further, why would they even want to after you already left? Very odd on their part.
Can you get a letter from the national of this sorority indicating that you de-pledged and were never an initiated member? I am wondering if that would help as you go forward.