[violetpretty]

I'm glad you went all the way through preference. You took it all in and then made your decision. Nothing wrong with that. It is very mature of you to drop out given your reasons, instead of the "Waaaahh I wasn't invited back to XYZ and my remaining options are beneath me" that lots of PNMs feel. Informal recruitment allows you to meet sorority women in a much more authentic way. Best of luck, whatever you decide!