[KSUViolet06]

I'm going to be honest here. If you're looking for someone to tell you to depledge, i'm not going to be the one.

You really shouldn't be so concerned with what other people think. Every other thing you said referenced what someone else thinks of your sorority?

Every sorority has negative things that people say about it. From the largest, to the smallest, to the ones with all the blonde barbies, to the one with brunettes. For every sorority, there's some negative thing that guys or nongreeks associate with them. There was one sorority that all the guys labeled the "stuck up bitch" sorority. Then there was another who was the "nerdy sorority".

If everybody depledged because of something a fraternity guy or non Greek said about their chapter, my campus wouldn't have a Greek sysyem!


We all had things that the guys would say about us. Did any of us care? Nope. Why not? Because what they thought didn't matter and we knew that they were just stupid boys who knew nothing about any of us.

As long as you continue to take what uinformed guys and non greeks opinions influence how YOU feel about YOUR sorority you won't be happy there.

Let me also add that your time as an active is only 4 or 5 years maximum. You will spend far more time in your sorority as an alumna than you will as an active. And as an alumna, no one cares what your chapter was like at your school. You could miss out on a lifetime of sisterhood with a wonderful organization, just because of what some stupid boys are saying right now.