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Day Six...
Okay, so I'm really ready for rush to be over. I am soooo tired and today was kind of sad for me. I got my event list back, waited for everyone to leave and totally broke down. I got invited back to four today. Two of which I am really happy about, two of which I am okay with. Three more girls from my group dropped out today, which was also sad to see.
Not to be mean, and this is compleatly my own personal opinion but it's sad that it's beginning to seem to me like some choices are being made by looks or social status. More so than I am comfortable with. Which of course is not limited to sorority life. Sorry for that really general statement, and please don't be mad. I don't know...today was just very discouraging to me. Some girls that didn't even attend all the parties yesterday because they "didn't feel like it" and put themselves at risk for being removed from rush altogether, recieved a full day today, even if they only attened three parties yesterday..today's max was 6. Oh, sorry for all of this, but today I was seriously considering dropping out. I had to have a conversation with myself to see why I am doing this, and what everything really means. I had a good chat with my RC today and she told me some of her experience and the harsh realities that she discovered. I left feeling better.
ANYWAY...this was my day:
Lucky: I had an AMAZING time here. We had a really fun activity and the girl and I really had a fun conversation that was great. After talking to some of my new friends in my rush group; they all thought that this is where I would end up, which was kind of funny to me. Very sweet girl and very interested in what I had to say. I left this house feeling uplifted and sad to leave. Very down to earth, sincere and modest girls at this house. All qualities I admire.
Gap: I still have the same feelings as before. And the event today wasn't that exciting, and the first girl was from out of state and we really had nothing in common. But the next girl and I had talked before, and the conversation was easy and comfortable. Not my top choice, but had been very consistant. In my opinion, these girls seems closest to eachother, which is something that others have noticed as well. Very considerate, sweet girls.
Seattle Sun: Very fun activity and really nice genuine girl that I talked to. Really fun things to do but there was some awkward no talking moments. From what I hear you either are in love or really NOT in love with this house. I don't love.
Abercrombie: Best of the day. Very sincere girl that I really connected with. It was a great time. Amazing philanthropy and really great activites. When we were watching the slideshow something clicked. It suddenly seemed like home. Was my number one for the day.
Loving: Abercromie and Lucky
Liking: Gap
Would rather not see tomorrow: Seattle Sun
I can not believe tomorrow is pref!
Thank you all....and again, sorry for the not so positive comments before, but I think it's only right to post the positive and negative sides to this whole process. And to all of you ladies doing through it all now: GOOD LUCK, we're all in it together, enjoy yourselves tomorrow and oh yes...GO DAWGS!!!
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