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Originally Posted by golden_vein
Yet I feel that I would potentially anger my sisters in my attempts to transfer. If I was to begin the application processes, my schedule would become much more hectic. Not to mention, I would ultimately be leaving my sorority.
I cannot help but feel torn....some sisters might be upset with me. In all honesty I originally could not even fathom transferring (because I'd given up hope), but after my first year and all the positive reinforcement I want to go for it. It's like a personal dream of mine...
What should I do and what are my options? If I were to leave, would there be tension between my sisters and I? I know that theoretically they would support me...but I fear it'll be much different.
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College is not about being Greek. It's about maximizing and using your learning potential. I cannot imagine that any fellow member, especially not on the level of the whole, becoming angry at you for tranfering schools.
I am going to say this as nicely as I can. Now is not the time to do things based on what your friends might think. That kind of thought process ended years ago. Make an educated decision, tell your friends, and go. You can continue your relationships.
Only you know your options. You don't need us to make a big-girl decision like that. Good luck in whatever you choose!