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AZMom,
Why don't you let your daughter decide how she wants to proceed with Greek Life? Going to college is a good start to learn how to deal with real life, and it's impossible for you to hold her hands throughout the way. Let her go to recruitment and see for herself. Tell her to keep an open minded and whatever she ends up being with, it's meant to be. Only SHE would know what's good for her or not, not you. So let her make the steps and choices. You have to let her go someone you know?
And not to mention, I've seen students with controlling (not meaning to say controlling) parents end up having a hard time to get situated with college and end up rebellion, because every little thing has to be consulted with the parents and they have to obey.
I was lucky enough to have parents who let me decide, and guess what? I earned my own tuition (plus loans) and learned so much more then I could ever imagine.
I guess my whole point is, let her do the work. You probably going to inhibit her learning experience...
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