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Originally Posted by jessiwannabe
Yes because i've all ready accepted the fact that she is gone. I know al the desicisions she made. It made me upset that she couldn't talk to me before she did this but no matter what I said I believe she would have done it any way.
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However, you are not understanding that she had a mental illness that developed long before she chose to hurt herself and be successful at it... She did not know to talk to anyone, much less you. That is not your fault. And now she left you and your loved ones to heal such a hard thing. She may have hurt herself anyway, but she may have not if somebody had seen your sister's warning signs. Unfortunately, she had to decide to seek some of that...
The best you can do is move forward in your life and hope to have patience and clarity.