I dont know if this post was just for the ladies, but I have had a run in with this sort of thing constantly, especially since I joined a predominantly white Fraternity. It's hard to deal with at times, but to me its funny. The same people who sit there and criticize me don't grow up and do anything with there life. I had to tell people you can judge me by my organization all you want, but you are the iqnorant one still in HighSchool
Fraternally,
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