"Don't worry too much about being chastised, but be aware that if you do join, and you spend all your time thinking about tiers, you might be missing out on something."
I'm not worried about the tiers! That was the point. I can't understand why people in the recruitment process seem so worried about what tier the sorority is rather than how they fit with the other girls. I wanted to clarify that tiers were what I thought they were (popularity based on looks, grades, and money).
I thought this was a place where I could go for help. I am still trying to decide if this (a sorority) is something I want to be a part of. Maybe my skin is not thick enough. I certainly don't feel comfortable asking any more questions, so maybe that's a sign.
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