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Originally Posted by WarEagle07
Yes, I know some FSU Chi O alums and this is so hard for them! As for the current FSU Chi O house, it is correct that it was remodeled on the inside. The actives and alums are not allowed to speak about what happened nor are they allowed to tell approx. where in the house it happened. I doubt that after all of these years the actives even know themselves. And I must report that the house is not reported to be haunted either.
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I understand the desire for tact and to not let a horrible incident be defining for the chapter, but I'm not a fan of telling members what they are and aren't allowed to talk about.
If an alum from that time wants to talk, she should feel supported talking about it.
It shouldn't be part of the rush house tour, obviously, but if actives wants to talk about what happened in a way that's respectful of the victims, it's seems strange to forbid it, considering they live in the same house.
Again, I understand why you would want to discourage talking about it because for the most part, no good will come of it, but to "not allow" it seems to go to far.