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Giggle: If your sorority is an NPC sorority I don't care what they told you on the phone, the rule about not being initiated into another NPC sorority is a big one. Usually they don't even let you join a different NPC group if you transfer to a school that doesn't have your sorority at it.

Honestly, it sounds like you should just chill out until after rush is over. The current chapter is busy trying to prepare for that and if they are a big chapter, they may be purposely delaying your affiliation process so that they don't have you counting against them for chapter total. I know my NPC allows for transfer students to affiliate with the on-campus chapter even if the sorority is above chapter total.

Give your sorority at your campus a couple days after bid day to get some rest, and then try to become part of the group. They have other things on their mind right now and if you push them, they may question whether you have the best interest of THEIR chapter in your mind.