[AlethiaSi]

Thanks to everyone that responded, and also, it IS a hard situation, and navane, like you said, there are parts of the story that DON'T make sense, and i kept asking her, are you SURE that this is what happened, are you SURE that it was 3 drinks? I mean, I'm not there, I don't know her bf, I don't think he would do this, but I guess I really just don't know, that's what it comes down to.
I guess I'm just worried because she doesn't have any good girlfriends down there to help her through this, and I can't go down there....
I am also so thankful that no one got hurt and I know she's getting a lawyer, but the situation is just so messed up, and after hearing and reading about other stories similar, it just scares the crap out of me.
(i've been drugged myself and have taken care of a sister that was, and both were one of the scariest moments of my life)