[bejazd]

I think everyone in a sorority has experienced that feeling you're having right now at some time during their membership. You just got initiated. You have a lifetime of experiences and sisterhood moments yet to come! You owe it to yourself to give it your best effort.

The more you don't go to events, the more disconnected you are going to feel to this group. You have to show interst in others to get them interested in you. So get yourself there with a good attitude and decide you're going to have fun and get to know just one sister better at the next event.

The next week, get to know just one more sister. The third week, make an effort to meet two new sisters.

I didn't like eating dinner at the chapter house- it was usually spaghetti or yummy chicken or something like that. So I purposely scheduled my job so I had to work, and would arrive just as dinner was wrapping up. In retrospect now I realize I would have been much closer to more sisters in the chapter had I sucked it up and gone to dinner every week! That was a time to talk and get to know people, and I kinda blew it for myself! Lucky for me my closest pledge sister and my boyfriend pushed me to go to practically everything else...and y'know what...I made an effort, and ended up with three little sisters I adored!