[honeychile]

This advice that I was given may help you (or someone else): Whenever you think of your ex, use the phrase that he is "someone I used to love." It doesn't put blame on either of you, it simply helps your mind reprogram in a positive way.

Another good one, for nosy people who know that your ex has already hooked up with another person is, "He has the unique ability to make two women happy. I was thrilled to get rid of him, and she was thrilled to get him. I like to think of it as recycling."

As crazy as those phrases sound, it's all about resetting your brain, which in turn, will reset your heart. Good luck!