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Originally Posted by AuburnPNMmom
She only knows the one girl - I think because she is so blonde and the girls in this sorority are not, that she feels she may not belong. I have encouraged her not to listen to what others say about the sororities--- Frankly, though she may look like she would belong in the one she wanted, I have not been impressed with the actions of the girls I have met and am glad she got cut from them. Convincing her of that is another story. Otherwise, she knows nothing about the individual girls. She had fun at the supper they took her to a few nights ago and tonight will meet some of the actual pledges.....
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I would say that not wanting to be blonder than the other members is an unusual standard to use in choosing a group and it's particularly hard to offer suggestions in solving this particular dilemma.
Perhaps once you have gotten as much information from Greek Life as you can about how many sophomores typically get bids at the group that your daughter really wanted during recruitment, and honestly, they are the only ones who can provide this information accurately if they are willing to, then your should encourage your daughter to follow her heart (she can always find another haircolorist).