I always say "I am proud to be a Phi Mu"...and then add "I have a whole lot more fun since I am an alumna than I ever did when I was in college".
It usually opens up a whole thread of conversation, especially with those who "were" greek in college. I think I helped a few find their way back

(my son's best friend's mom...who is an Alpha Xi)
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"Pam" Bäckström, DY '81, WSU, Dayton, OH - Bloomington, IN
Phi Mu - Love.Honor.Truth - 1852 - Imagine.Believe.Achieve - 2013 - 161Years of Wonderful -
Proud to be a member of the Macon Magnolias - Phi Mu + Alpha Delta Pi