I did cloth diapers, no service, for #1. That is a LOT of laundry - so just know that going in. It seemed like the washer was always going.
I breastfed all four, but #4 "liked to kill me". I was in screaming agony everytime he latched on for 6 weeks - 6 WEEKS. Finally got nipple shields and it worked better. Jeez. Am I glad I did it? Yes.
I miss the cleveage, but nothing else about nursing.