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I'm sorry for undermining what OTW said, but I'm really curious HOW you do it? Do girls get matched by name to a rusher who knew in advance who she was getting at the start of a party and knows, then, how to treat her?
I'm used to a system where until pref, you just kind of pick up a girl from the PNM pool. Unless you made the whole chapter actually memorize 1200+ girls, how would a member know when her guest should exit during the first round or second round?
Similarly, unless you match up rusher and pnm in advance, how could you prearrange skit seating really, without it just being weird that some girls were seated in back rows while other front row seats were held for 'top' girls?
Is this kind of stuff MS? Does the national organization know that your chapter has made up a local system of treating pnms according to a prearranged pattern of status in the public aspects of rush?
I understand that chapters have to work to get their top girls, but dumping some guest out of the party early just seems jerky, especially considering that you've designated a rusher to her already. A VIP room, as long as other PNMS are also given a fair consideration, is no problem to me, but other aspects seem counterproductive to having a good reputation for hospitality and friendliness on campus.
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