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Originally Posted by BetteDavisEyes
But for every girl who pledged a group that wasn't her #1 choice and ended up loving it, there's also a girl who pledged a group she didn't care for just so she could be in a sorority. That same girl is unhappy and ends up withdrawing thus, taking up a spot that could have been given to a girl who would have given her time and effort to the sorority instead of someone who attends events just because they were mandatory.
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But I don't believe anyone is telling her to join no matter what or even to sign her pref card. If she goes to pref at whatever parties she is invited to and then doesn't sign a pref card, she isn't taking the spot from anyone.
I hope you get the invites you want psprincess!