Being gay is not a lifestyle anymore than being straight is a lifestyle. The homophobic community invented the term "gay/homosexual lifestyle", trying to sound a little more politically correct, switching the focus from who a person is, to what a person does. In other words, a person's behavior instead of a person's being, as in "we don't care if you're gay, it's your lifestyle we have a problem with."
The truth is, it's all the same old bigotry wrapped up in new package.
Gay people seldom, if ever, use the term "gay lifestyle" because their lives are substantially the same as everyone else's.
Now, if you were a vegan who lives in the woods at the top of a Sequoia tree, that might be an "alternative lifestyle", but it has no bearing on the subject at hand.
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