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					Originally Posted by SWTXBelle  She SAID that to you???Your MIL said that to you???  | 
	
 Yepper...  She was mad because she didn't meet me before we married and we decided not to have all the "accoutrements" of a proper wedding of that of the Black Bourgeoisie that I was required to have from those of strong Southern undertones...
Just call it a "Cake Walk".
I cried.  Because, I thought it wasn't so bad, there were things I could have improved.  But under a month of planning at a destination location was tough.  I don't suggest anyone doing what I did.
If you really must get married, JP, all the way.  Cheaper and have a huge reception to get money for your future and a house.