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Old 08-27-2007, 12:04 PM
andrea981 andrea981 is offline
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Originally Posted by OSU Maman View Post
I think people need to realize that not all of us have been surrounded by or exposed to Greek life.

If I saw something that said recs were "not necessary, " then I would believe that statement (after finding out what a rec was-lol). It should not be assumed that people would know that even though stated that it's not necessary, you should get one anyway.

I am very sorry for your daughter, and hope that things work out for her some way.

My daughter will be attending Ohio State University. Recruitment doesn't take place until after Christmas. I understand that (or at least I thought I did) recs are not needed like they are at an SEC school. If someone has knowledge to the contrary, please let me know. Or should my daughter ask this question when she has her Welcome Week activities (where they will meet some of the people from Greek life)?

Thanks!
The fact that recruitment is delayed gives your daughter a better opportunity to figure out how common recs are. At my school, a very small one, having a rec was an exception to the rule. Just have your daughter casually ask whether most PNMs have recs or not from a sorority junior or senior (someone who has seen a couple recruitment seasons).
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