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I tell my daughters, if you look for perfect people for friends, you will have none.
I'm Assuming they were good friends before rooming together. If this is the case, then encouraging your daughter to bail on her friend at this point is, in my opinion, sending the wrong message. There is probably an underlying reason why her friend is acting this way, and it should pass, once they adjust and continue to do things together.
I had a daughter in a similar (reverse) situation relative to sorority stuff. Though it was tough, her roomie stuck by her. Today, they are the best of friends. My daughter knows her old roomie is a friend that will be there even when she's not perfect. It works in reverse too, because at other times, my daughter has stood by her old roomie when she's not acting so perfect. That's what friendship is about.
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